i had no problem connecting to the server with my smartphone and usb teathering over mobilenetwork, but it looks like i have trouble connecting with the fritzbox setting
so the pc is connected to the fritzbox via ethernet and the fritzbox is currently connected via HSDPA+ stick to the internet
i tried to make my PC an exposed host on the fritz box to exclude any firewall setting from the fritzbox, but that didnt helped
im not dieing, but curious to find a solution

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