Return of Reckoning

Every fort i get disconnected, I have turned down all graphics , I have an i7 7700 and a 580 radeon card with 16 gb ram. Is not top end but should be able to run this game?? It is super frustrating when your in Lords room DC get kicked from warband, go to prison and get stuck being ganked the rest of the match. This happens to me over and over. It isn't even worth it for me to try anymore. Does anyone have any suggestions??

1. make sure you're running the client in 64-bit (check the gear icon to the top right in the launcher)
2. remove names
3. change font to simple
4. limit the chat text to 500
5. setting to fastest framrate

...or just use VinyUI and have everything fixed (+point 1)