Return of Reckoning

Hi I'm fairly new to this game and started playing a character and then realized I didn't really like the way he looked so I deleted him. I realized later that I can't use the same name I used before without a server reset. We had a reset not to long ago but for some reason I still can't use the name. I checked the armory and they are also no longer there. I read somewhere that there is also command to change your name in game? I would appreciate any answer I can get. I know I sound picky but it's just how I am with these types of games. Thanks in advance.

Wait for server restart then the name will available.

I did, we already had one and I still can't use the name. Thats the problem.