I'm not even remotely trolling, and I'm not sure why you're so triggered, but maybe chill out ma'am. I spend 99% of my time as a tank in either a duo or a six-man too, not as an mdps. You apparently spend your entire playtime as a magus trying to solo down healers in the pug sc, and then complaining on the forums about it. I think I experience a great deal more success and a great deal less frustration than you. Perhaps try playing a different class or archetype. It may improve your mood.
I appreciate Ramasees and Geni provided numbers showing that healers with max willpower have too much native disrupt. I think if the stat defense formula is tuned differently, we wouldnt need bandaids like True Strike. I dont know if we should go back to the AoR formula, as Geni suggests, but certainly the formula could be tweaked. I think Ramasees also makes good points when he notes that healers have little reason to stack willpower, due to low return on investment vis a vis heal output, and that perhaps stat calculations in general (or at least some of them) could be revisited.