Return of Reckoning

I have spent hours combing through the forum hopefully to not bother anyone but I can't seem to get into the game.

First issue was that I would load into the game just fine but then would never get connected to the game server to load my characters. I tried at least 25 times, logging in and then ...

Spent 30 minutes looking for the "exact" issue before I posted because I "READ" that I needed to. Could not find and tried many options already listed. So if you know where the link is that would be great. Thanks.

Tried logging in and got this as my message:

Could not connect to Login server
System.Net.Sockets.SocketException (0x80004005): No connection could be made because the target machine actively refused it 46.105.54.77:8000
at System.Net.Sockets.Socket.Connect(IPAddress[] addresses, Int32 port)
at ...

Worked. Thanks so much! Have a great day.

Where do I find the Files? I have all but this one

mythloginserviceconfig.xml

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That helped. I got it thanks. Now I get to the log in screen and it just shows the camp with the options at the bottom. No way to start a new character. Hmmm...

I've tried all the things you've said and can't get RoR Launcher to run. It is in the correct folder and I've clicked the "read only" box. See attached pic. Any advice?

Also I click on the client file and it asks me what "How I want to open the file?"

It doesn't show the same icon as in your ...